quarta-feira, 28 de outubro de 2009

Describing my relationship with a family member

Since my departure from my mother's home, things haven't been the same between me and her. I notice that now she doesn't have the same care as she used to have when I lived there. Anyway, it's not that she doesn't treat me as her son anymore, it's not that at all! But we as their children know when something is not right. It has been almost three years since I left home to live my own life in my own apartment, and to teel you the truth, it was quite difficult at the beginning. However, I have to say that thing are pretty good between us now, and that is what matters to me right now!

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  1. Every time I was ready to protect him of everybody and everything. My brother is three years younger than me. When he was eleven, he was small, thin, and I thought he was a little weak, I wanted to save him of the danger, and one day I heard one boy had beaten in his face, I was so crazy, I went to this boy, and I did the same thing, I beat in that boy’s face, and soon I escaped there. However, when I was angry with him I beat him, and a lot, and I regret a lot because that. Now, he already got married and me too, and we don’t live together anymore, I really miss him. Now he is taller than me, he is completely different of me now, he is so calm, and I’m not. We delayed seeing us, and when we meet, the time is very short for our chat.

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  2. Since i born, i was created by my grandmother. All my uncles get married and go away from home. So, i live alone with my grandmother since 2006. Many things are so good and many others very hard. Some things change, i have to work and let her alone in home, and many others. Today, i learning to live togheter and overcome the details...

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  3. I’m a single man, living alone with my soon, in our apartment. He’s very study boy and he’s preparing to get his space on ITA, TECNOLOGIC INSTITUTE OF AERONAUTIC, in São Paulo.
    Sometimes I think he’s crazy, because he studies a lot. This kind of entrance examination is too difficult for a single person, absolutely the most difficult in Brazil. He loves mathematics and physics, the base of that test. However we have shared some home tasks, because it’s necessary to keep our home clean. We have a washing machine and sometimes I put some clothes to wash in it, and when it finishes the job, he has to hang the clothes up.
    Sometimes I cook something quick, in microwave oven, and we use dirtying some dishes and silverware. Then, we also have to wash them and at this moment he doesn’t like. He use to grumble about it, but he do it. The other home tasks we have a house keeper to help us once a week. When he get be approved on ITA, he will leave me alone, but I won’t be sad because it’s very important for him. He is a good boy and he deserves.

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  4. Me and my mother

    We are so similar. Not physically but in the way to be. I believe this is the reason of our crazy relationship. Sometimes we discuss, but I know that she wants the best for me.
    I really admire her because she's perfect and I'm not, actually I don't want to be. Maybe she can't understand this.
    The beauty of our relationship is, in spite of discussing, we love each other!!!

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  5. I have a good relationship with my father, but not so close, because I live with my mother. They're separated.
    My father is a peacefull guy. He has always good advices to give to me, and I try to listen always as I can. Another factor I like about him is his behavior in places we go. I'm sure that he would never do some kind of of fool. He knows how to behave, know to talk when everybody is hearing and hear when someone else is talking. What's more, he knows how to choose a good wearing to use. Every son has this kind o worry. hehe.....
    Honestly, I don't know anything I can complain about him. His defects never hitted me. I don't know why, but I guess this is because we doesn't live together.
    I just have to say thanks to god for the dad he gave to me. He is a man I could take as an inspiration, and that's a gift enough

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  6. My mother and I have a good relationship. When I was a child she rebuked me a lot because I was not a good daughter (I was very stubborn) and I didn't like that. But nowadays I know that everything she did in the past was the better to me in that moment.

    She's a very good mother. She always gives me the best advises and she helps me a lot. Every time I need her she's there, doing everything I really need (she don't do anything I ask her because she knows that it's not the best thing to me).

    She is getting old and I worry about it. I help her every time I can and I'm always asking about her health. We talk about life, about people, about me, about her, about soap operas... about many things.

    We know that we love each other very much, even when we don't express it as often as we like. She's a really inspiration to me.

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  7. My relationship with my mother is so good.Is sure that we have our moments of hate,but not so long time.My mother let me very annoyed when she charge me too much somethings,but i try understand her,and then,to stay all good.

    We costumer to go the party togheter and is many enjoyable.My mother is so funny.Always that i need of something she give me,she is so nice with me.

    In a conclusion i have a relationship so good with my mother and i have so affection for her,at last i love her.

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  8. My mother is a great person who loves helping family members. She taught me how to treat well the elderly, and now I guess these people one day were young and had to help their elderly family members too.

    Today my mother is getting older, and will need special care, so I will have a great pleasure to treat her well like she have treated me and her parents all her life.

    My mother always says that whenever we can help people, we must do it because life is a circle that rolls without stopping, and if this circle rolls and you do not follow it, the next turn will be harder. Now I know that chances are always circling, and if you do not catch it up, you lost it at all.

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